To attract your dream partner, you must first become a dream partner. It’s easy to overlook this part. We have high expectations of what we expect of a partner without considering if we meet them ourselves.
Here are the top criteria that most people have when seeking a partner for a committed relationship. Instead of considering them as criteria for the other person, we will evaluate whether we meet them ourselves.
Loyal
Are you ready to be loyal to just one person? Or do you still want to play the field? Either is okay. But if you pick the latter, you must be honest with those you date and not expect them to be loyal while you play.
This is true even if you’re a guy. Many guys expect their partners to be loyal without holding themselves to the same standard. Then they are overly and unfairly suspicious of unfaithful activities by their partner.
If you want a partner who is loyal to you, you must be ready to be utterly faithful to them.
Attractive
Are you fit and attractive in the way that you expect a partner to be? Or do you need to lose some weight and start working out?
If you want a slim, fit, and gorgeous partner, you must get yourself in shape first. If there’s one area most people have direct control over, it’s their weight and fitness. So there are no good excuses.
If you want a partner whose appearance ignites your passions, get fit, cut, and screamingly good-looking. Remember that attractiveness isn’t always about being extraordinarily pretty or handsome. More often, it’s about mastery over your body and self-confidence!
Together
Do you have your life together? Or are you expecting your partner to save you or bail you out?
If you are deeply in debt, emotionally fragile from a prior relationship, and unstable in your career, you must get these things in order before seeking a partner.
To attract an emotionally stable, financially sound, and goal-oriented partner, you must first become that yourself!
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There are many more criteria, but these common ones should give you an idea of what you must work on to attract your dream partner. If you fall short of becoming a dream partner, you’ll attract a person at your level. But why settle for less?