Your best assets for being loved are your uniquenesses! Unless you have an identical twin, you have no competitors. Any imitators can only fake a cheap representation of you at best.
Think about what attracts you to a particular person. Is it not their unique look and the way they move and behave that draws you to them over anyone else? Is it not their mysterious uniqueness that is enticing, intoxicating, and sexy?
No one looks, acts, moves, thinks, listens, speaks, or creates like you do. There is only one copy of you. One original. One design.
It does not matter what you look like. Your attractiveness is shown by how you appreciate and love yourself – no matter what. This means that if you are not the best-looking woman or man, according to Hollywood standards, it does not matter. Your attractiveness is expressed in your uniqueness if you have self-love and self-confidence. The foundation of self-love and self-confidence is self-acceptance and self-appreciation.
Not everyone is going to like your unique assets, of course. Only those individuals with refined “tastes” and “needs” for your particular assets will be drawn to you. These people can be lovers or just friends of any sex.
If you dramatically change key aspects of your body (weight loss) or behavior (personal development), you will attract people who align with these changes. However, your unique underlying essence will continue to be the main attraction. 🙂
Here is a list of your unique assets that no one on earth can claim.
Your Personality
No one can compete with you when you are being your true, wonderful self. Your advantage is in the uniqueness and mystery you express through your personality.
A person with self-love and self-confidence automatically has an attractive personality regardless of their physical appearance or ways of expressing themselves. In other words, whether a person is extroverted, introverted, shy, or reserved does not matter. If they have learned to appreciate their uniqueness and have gained self-love and self-confidence, they will radiate attractive, positive energy.
Your Appearance
The uniqueness of your hair, skin, face, eyes, mouth, expressions, body, hands, chest, back, legs, arms, and movements attracts certain people. No person is a fair comparison to you.
However, your opinion and attitude toward yourself are shown in your appearance in multiple ways. It is shown in your expression, how you hold yourself, and how you stand, walk, and move your arms. Develop self-acceptance and self-love for your body, and your appearance will improve tremendously.
Your History
Your history is the story behind the mystery that is you! It is your treasure chest, your journal, and your code book. It’s one of the strongest and longest-lasting attraction features you have. It would take decades for anyone to understand the influences that have shaped the unique person you are.
This information reveals important clues about you that others can use to give you pleasure, guidance, and inspiration, as well as pain, devious advice, and discouragement. So, share it carefully and sparingly. There’s another advantage to being elusive about your history. It enhances your mystery, which is an aphrodisiac. 😀
Your Future
Your future is the unique set of dreams you have for your life. You constructed the blueprint and image of your dreams in your mind.
The unique characteristics of your dreams and how you make them a reality make you attractive to particular individuals. They may want to join you in your journey or travel alongside you while they pursue similar dreams.
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Your best assets for love are the things that differentiate you from everyone else. They are your uniquenesses. Embrace them, appreciate them, and love them. Consider your uniqueness the perks of being you!