My criteria for a perfect woman nearly match those described in my book, Finding the One Who’s Right. But with more experience, knowledge, and age, I’ve refined, updated, and added to them.
I’ve divided the description of my perfect woman into three categories: (1) must-haves, (2) want-to-haves, and (3) must-not-haves. The “want-to-haves” category was added since this article does not include all the worksheets in my book.
Must Haves
- Smart
- Petite
- 4’9″ to 5’5″
- Fit
- Healthy
- Vegan
- Attractive
- Independent
- Productive
- Secure
- Authentic
- Truthful
- Easy going
- Cooperative
- Open-minded
- High integrity
- Solid character
- Good communicator
- Supportive
- Thrifty
- Dog lover
- Computer literate
- Internet savvy
- Organized
Want To Haves
- Smart, green, elegant, small house lover
- WordPress enthusiast
- Creative
- Music: soft rock, folk-rock, classic rock, new age
- Politics: non-partisan, independent
- College
- Green living
- Renewable energy
- Landscaper
- Food gardener
- House planter
- RV traveler
- Pickleball player
- No kids
Must Not Haves
- Foolish
- Careless
- Selfish
- Obese
- Model
- No exercise
- Girl jock
- Unhealthy
- Animal eater
- Compulsive shopper/spender
- In debt
- Unreasonable
- Defensive
- Bitchy
- Aggressive
- Pushy
- Loud
- Shouter
- Confrontational
- Illogical
- Ultra-conservative
- Smoker (past okay)
- Heavy drinker
- Poor listener
- Constant talker
- Unproductive
- Sneaky
- Surpriser
- Big city lover
- Cat lover
- Rap fanatic